Thursday, May 02, 2013

Most People Live and Die Without Ever Having Had Their Best Night Of Sex!

As humans we are programmed with two very primal instincts, one is survival, the other to reproduce. These two things are very closely related, so basically if you strip it all away to its most basic explanation, we are programmed to want to have sex pretty much instinctively!
Having said that modern society is trying to deprogram us of this very basic instinct by telling us it is wrong or bad to have more than one partner or to have sex outside of a relationship and as a result of this to never act out your deepest fantasies or have your greatest night of sex!
9 out of 10 men fantasize about having a threesome (2 girls, one guy) but less than 1% of men ever actually have a threesome. Why is this?
In the top 10 fantasies that are most common for a women here are a few. Double Penetration, Being Touched or Masturbated by Another Women, Being Tied Up, Being Dominated, Being Watched While Having Sex, Another Man. But guess what very few women ever act out these fantasies.
Some of the most common relationship issues (other than money) are as follows. Being attracted to Another Person, Infidelity, Physical Incompatibility, Less Attracted to a Person Sexually, Conflicts in Tastes and Desires, Comparing Your Partner to Others, Impotency. Why is this?
Well let me tell why this is. It is because modern society makes it taboo for us to talk about or act out our sexual fantasies, our most basic instinct. If most men or women could go to their partner and feel comfortable about talking about their fantasies and in turn open up a dialogue with their partner about these fantasies the chance of you being able to have Your Best Night Of Sex would be more real, and as a direct result of that you would feel more fulfilled in your current relationship and be less likely to be looking out side of your relationship for satisfaction of those fantasies. Which are sexual in nature and our most basic instinct.
Do you see where I am going here people? We are wired a certain way and society tells us to not be comfortable in our own skin or with our own sexuality, which in it self is a joke given every major corporation around the planet uses sex to sell its products.
Don't feel insecure about wanting to act out your fantasies or about bringing them to your partners attention, it is natural and it is alright to do so. Who knows how much it could improve the status of your current relationship.
Jane Smith says it's alright! Hell she says its more than alright it is human nature! Don't fight your own most basic of instincts.
If you need advice on how to approach your partner about this topic or are uncomfortable open this door get in touch with Jane Smith Sexpert and she can help guide you down this wonderful road of not just sex fantasies, but the reality of your best night of sex!
Jane Smith Sexpert lives her life this way and has never been more fulfilled and never more happy!

~Jane 

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