...ah, 2 months post singledom and I have started to date in earnest. I have decided I have so many old patterns in my past dating life that I want to break all habits and start new. I decided 2008 was going to be my '365 Days of Saying Yes to Anyone to Asked Me Out'. Was I being brave or stupid? Time will tell. I was going to start a whole new adventure with sex! I couldn't help myself, I was always aroused, and was looking to find someone in the same situation. I was going to become a "Sexpert"!
Feb 12, 2008. My girlfriend had just moved into her new place after her separation from her husband. She had left him hoping he would follow her to the ends of the earth... wrong reason for making that decision. He never followed her. Feb 12, was my girlfriends birthday, I had invited some people over after all the 'deliveries' were made. She had so much going on that day but she couldn't be there for any of it, so I took the afternoon off and worked from her house waiting for all the deliveries. The first was the internet guy, sweet black guy who had JUST moved from Africa, poor bastard was outside on top of the house in a snowsuit in Feb, can you say 'mistake'. I served him anything I could find that was warm. He kept coming inside to thaw out. He was almost done but he had to wait for the 'Bell' guy to get a signal. Bell guy comes mid-day. My 'boy-crazy' kicks in... dude is stunning. Tall, big, built with a great smile. He winks at me when he comes in, I blush like a school girl...oh god, this is going to be interesting. He knows internet guy, they chat and laugh, internet guy says "she's awesome"... bell guy says " I can tell". They do their man thing with tools and such and I welcome in the first delivery of furniture. Friends are calling to confirm the time for party and what to bring. Some friends have dropped in to say 'hi' and the I'm still making pots of coffee. It was a fun afternoon of laughs, food, coffee, exchanging cards & numbers and the party hadn't started yet. The living room was full of delivery people, repair people, and tech people. The Bell guy comes in an asks to see me in the kitchen to look at the phone, he is really close and he smells really good. He leans over me to plug phone in and smells my hair. Didn't seem strange at all at the time ...lol... but now writing it seems kinda weird.. any hoo. He smells my hair, I turn around and he kisses me... yup! just like in the movies, I pull back like I'm indignant that he thinks he can just kiss me like that after barely saying 'hello'..... however I don't say anything, I just look at him and he kisses me again. It was a beautiful kiss. He pulls back and says he has to make a call. He calls work (Bell) and tells them he will be here for the rest of the day fixing the line. SO JUST SO WE ARE ALL CLEAR, when they say 'he will be there sometime between noon and 5'... it just might be because he is making out with a customer. We sit down and talk and talk and talk all afternoon, people are in an out all day, finally the last furniture guys arrives and the house is ready for the party. Bell guy Derek is staying for the party as is the last of the delivery guys and the internet fellow from Africa. My gf comes home to a raging fire ( yes in the fireplace) new furniture, friends with food, drinks and presents. Towards the end of the party Bell guy says he wants to show me the phone he set up downstairs.. I totally fell for that one. He went down the stairs well ahead of me. When I reached the bottom of the stairs he was there in the dark, he picked me up and carried me to the couch. He pulled me on top of him. The kissing that was so sweet before turned into great passion, there was no denying his passion, it was hard and throbbing under me. The more we kissed the more I could feel him. He was quite a specimen of a young healthy all Canadian boy. I cut it short, I had guests to attend you.. I really do have my priorities straight :)
The party went on until the wee hours of the morning. That was one of the best days I had had in 10 years so much fun and being flirted with all day was glorious. I awoke to a few text messages from Bell guy. He wanted to know if I could meet him on Saturday. Of course I was going to follow through with what we started, I had had a night filled or erotic dreams of passionate sex in far off places, I think it was Africa. I had to work on Saturday and yes you guessed it I met in my office in between appointments. My office is just so damn conducive to great sexual trysts. Couch, rock walls, great music, a full fridge and oh so private. He met me just after 1pm, I let him in the door, we made a great attempt at some small talk but in no time at all, my clothes were being ripped off, he tore my scarf, and a few buttons. My boots were thrown down the hall, not to be found again for over a week... it fell behind a large bank of filing cabinets I couldn't move by myself.. try explaining that to someone, "I think my boot is behind the file cabinets, can you help me move them"? eeeeeeeeee awkward.
It was a great way to spend the afternoon. My clothes were ripped, I was tired and sore, my shoulder had a bruise on it from him biting me I think... I had had multiple orgasms and once again my condom stash in my bottom drawer had come in handy. He was a completely unplanned 'date' a random person I met through unusual circumstances and it was great. He lived too far away to sustain any type of relationship on a regular basis...actually even if he lived just around the corner, he fell into the category of 'I don't even care if he talks'... I totally used him for my own satisfaction and he was perfectly willing to let me. A few wees after we met I received a package in the mail, it was a new black pashmina to replace the one he ripped what a sweet fellow :)
Thank you Ma Bell
~Jane
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